Sissy Humiliation: Why Do My Panties Get Wet When You Make Fun of Me?
Sissies Love Sissy Humiliation!
Is it mean to humiliate a sissy who wants to be humiliated?
Is it cruel for a Mistress to indulge the fantasies of a sissy who craves humiliation?
And why do sissies so often wish to be the target of humiliation, whether that's playful humiliation or cruel, taunting degradation?
Some believe it is opportunistic, cruel, or mean to engage in humiliation with sissies who crave it. Some would claim that sissies need therapy, or self-esteem boosting, to get over their desire to be humiliated.
And then there are those who actually enjoy the practice of sissy humiliation, who would argue that the eroticising of insecurities is a ubiquitous phenomenon in all niches and sub-niches of human erotic pleasure, and no amount of psychotherapy will erradicate it from our collective sexuality.
It is the brain's natural tendency to question itself, its desires, its thoughts, its wants. If this self-analysis and self-questioning did not exist, we would live amidst the chaos of a world of humans functioning at the level of the Id.
Most often, this inward reflection is an instantaneous and almost imperceptable action - we do it all the time and we're probably not even aware that we're doing it.
When insecurity comes into play, we question - and we don't necessarily receive the self-response we want.
For instance, "Am I manly enough?"
Many if not most men ask this question of themselves on a continuous basis. Most of the time they have external evidence to support an affirmative answer.
But take the example of the man whose subconscious mind presents this question to itself - while said man is flouncing around the house in panties, petticoats and high heels.
Brain says "Am I manly enough?" Brain answers "No, you big sissy, you sure aren't!"
And at that moment, an insecurity is born.
It is also a natural tendency to want to escape from pain or discomfort, physical, mental and emotional. An interesting trick of the mind when it comes to mental and emotional discomfort, brought on by insecurity, is to eroticize that insecurity and turn it into something pleasurable, or erotic.
The pleasure is intensified by external confirmation of the source of the insecurity.
- A woman fears her own sexuality or perceived promiscuity, and thus she is aroused by being called a "whore" or "slut" in bed.
- A man is somewhat uncomfortable with his bisexual tendencies, and gets turned on in a sexual situation where he's being called "faggot" or "cocksucker"
- A lack of endowment has always plagued the thoughts of a man with a rather small penis, and so he finds it incredibly erotic to hear how he is so small he will never have a real woman, he is doomed to a sex life of masturbation for all eternity, and is very sexually reponsive to being laughed at about his "pindick"
- A man suspects that he is not sexually satisfying his wife, or suspects that his wife is having sex with other men. This frequently morphs into cuckold fantasies
- A man has fantasies (or realities, as it were) of dressing like a sissy girl, pink panties and full make up and frilly girlie lingerie and clothes...and these desires make him question his masculinity. Rather than experiencing this emotional discomfort as a negative, he seeks out external afformation of his sissy-ness in the form of sissy humiliation
One of the strongest sources of emotional discomfort is the mental event when the external does not coordinate with the internal (thoughts/feelings.) When a person can at once eroticize their insecurities AND seek and find external confirmation of the insecurity, pleasurable erotic humiliation results.
So crossdressers and sissies, next time you find yourself craving humiliation from a Mistress, don't automatically assume you are damaged goods heading for the psychiatrist's couch! Though professional therapy can be very helpful in working through your complex feelings, both sexual, sissy, and otherwise, there is also no harm in exploring your desire for sissy humiliation, as long as you understand why you crave humiliation, and as long as the humiliation is more pleasurable than hurtful.
Because a kind, responsible Mistress would never want to really hurt her darling little sissy....
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